The Love Audit: 150 Questions to Ask Before You Move In or Get Engaged

Moving in together or getting engaged is one of the biggest decisions you’ll ever make — and most couples make it on momentum, not on a clear conversation. The Love Audit is that conversation: a warm, structured way to trade the hopeful guesses of early love for a real, shared picture of the life you’d actually be building.

Instead of vague advice, you get 150 specific, honest questions — the ones that quietly make or break a partnership — organized so you can work through them at your own pace, together.

What you’ll get

A 30-page printable guide covering why it pays to decide rather than drift into commitment; how to have these conversations without them turning into conflict; and 150 questions across ten territories — money, home and daily life, family and in-laws, children and parenting, sex and intimacy, values and beliefs, careers and ambition, health and lifestyle, conflict and communication, and the future itself.

The print-and-go toolkit

Includes a four-session run plan, the full 150-question checklist, an answer-comparison sheet, a dealbreakers-vs-preferences worksheet, a green / yellow / red flag tracker, an alignment scorecard, and a signable decision page.

Grounded in real research

The approach draws on respected relationship and couples-education research — from the psychology of commitment to how couples handle lasting difference — translated into plain, usable language, with clear diagrams throughout.

Instant digital download

Your file is ready the moment you check out. Print it at home, take it to a copy shop, or fill it in on any device.